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Robb told me afterwards that at previous Speed Date nights, some men registered, paid the and left.
I wish he had told me that first, then I would have felt like a brave man.
I have been wrong too many times in both directions. And conversely, I have judged people positively initially, only to altar my thoughts later. After they had over two years of long-distance phone conversations and countless e-mails, they finally spent a weekend together and got engaged, and married one month later.
When I first met my high school best friend Bill, I thought he was a total loser. A dear San Diego friend recently married a man I probably would have strongly endorsed if I had met him. That marriage lasted five months, and should have been put out of its misery after a week.
When the chemistry at a first meeting is off the chart good, we will look for things in the other person to justify the investment our heart has made.
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