How to talk to an intimidating person
The woman who has heard it once has likely heard it a thousand times.
To counter this annoying statement, she likely has awesome friends and family who remind her, “You don't want a man who isn't confident enough to take you off the market,” or as Dad always tells me, “You will work best with a man who thinks you're the best thing since sliced bread.
Guess what: The person who slightly intimidates you is also the person who will constantly keep your attention.Do you feel better after getting this off your chest, as if we are in a first interview and you need to shake your nerves by being brutally honest?Newsflash: This is not an interview and even if it were, you would never tell the person interviewing you that he or she is “intimidating."I'd rather you just tell me you're nervous because it's endearing.We've been talking for a while, maybe even tried the dating thing, and for whatever reason, you feel the need to inform me (as if I didn't already know) that I'm intimidating.I applaud your honesty, but why are you telling me this?