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A couple of girls felt that the African Americans tend to think that they are superior to Africans, showing less respect for them than the Caucasians who are more open to learning about different cultures.
Distrust African women tend to believe that African American men are ‘playas’, out looking for nothing but a good time.
I think the same rules should apply for cross-cultural/ relationships as for any other: does he/she love, respect, and value you and the relationship?
Is he/she a morally upright and responsible person?
He was a first time client, so we began to chit chat as I worked on his papers.
We talked about travels and different people we had met; the conversation turned to marriage as I was obviously wearing my wedding ring; he asked if I was married to an African, I said “Yes, of course,” then he asked if my husband was a doctor. Oh well, he says quite a few African men he knows are doctors … That’s when he asked me why it is so uncommon to find African women who date or marry outside their culture, especially to African American men. I kinda agreed – African women do marry outside their race and culture, but it’s more common to find them married to Caucasian men.
So, wanting to know what my friends thought, I posted this question on my Facebook page: One of my clients, an African American male asked me an interesting question the other day: “WHY IS IT THAT IN THE U. ESPECIALLY, YOU DON’T OFTEN FIND AFRICAN WOMEN WHO MARRY OUTSIDE THEIR CULTURE, ESPECIALLY TO BLACK AMERICAN MALES?It was stated that those who do ask African women out are not usually looking for serious long term relationships and African ‘sistas’ out here in the diaspora are often very much aware of their ticking biological clocks; they have no time to waste playing around.Not much in common Fundamental cultural differences serve as a huge divide between both groups; they do not share the same values for the most part.Most folks “tend to be comfortable with the culture they can identify with”, Anthony said.Not enough interaction Diane kind of hit the nail on the head when she wrote: “On my part, I think both parties have bought into the stereotypes.